When you are looking for more than a babysitter, seeking a compassionate nurturer who will do more than just fill the empty space of your absence but will become a friend of the family, select a nanny. All around the world, nannies are selected to fit into unique family environments with the least amount of disruption while meeting the family's specific needs. When choosing a nanny, consider the following tips.
When seeking a nanny to provide childcare in your home on a regular or occasional basis, find someone you feel comfortable with and interview several people. You will probably find that several interviews will help you make a clearer choice. Remember to use your common sense and go with what your gut feelings tell you.
During the initial contact, you may want to inform the perspective nanny of why you are seeking a nanny and inquire about their past experiences, current situation, long range plans and possible conflicts. If you think that this individual could be a match, ask for references and contacts numbers. Remember to listen carefully “between the lines.” Consider the following. Did the person seem vague? Did the person sound organized? Will this individual take initiative and responsibility?
After conducting the phone interviews and checking references in addition to background checks, invite the prospective nannies you liked best to your home. Allow time for interaction between your child(ren) and the prospective nanny.
While visiting face to face, take the opportunity to discuss the care details pertaining to your child(ren), i.e. child’s personality, routines for eating/sleeping/ playing, handling a crying baby, discipline, opinions on toilet training and ideas for activities to do with the child. Review your expectations with the individual applicant what would be expected of her/him and be clear about any special rules you have regarding smoking, food, visitors, phone use, etc.
Prior to the end of the face-to-face interview, discuss money matters, the rate of pay and a cancellation policy – meaning a reasonable amount of notice to be given by you or the provider if arrangements need to be changed. Once you have offered the position to your nanny, develop and sign a copy of the written arrangements.
When your nanny arrives at your home on the first day of work:
Show them the house again, and reemphasize your safety rules, where the bathrooms, bedrooms, and first aid supplies are. Go over your established exit procedures in case of fire. Your child may enjoy showing the house with you and this is a good way for him/her to get comfortable with the person.
Leave the phone number where you can be reached and all other emergency number such as police, fire, ambulance, doctor, friends and relatives.