Time To "Shower" Baby
Party Tips for Planning a Baby Shower
The history of having a baby shower dates back many centuries with evidence of such celebrations found even in ancient Egyptian and Roman cultures. Baby showers and their associated traditions as we know them today were not common until after World War II, however.
Today’s baby showers run the spectrum from very traditional to co-ed affairs. Regardless of the theme of the shower, one thing remains true – everyone is excited to celebrate your baby and pregnancy with you, and a shower is a great time to do just that. The following are a few tips to ensure a successful event.
Baby Shower Planning Etiquette
Other than the expectant parents, it is acceptable for anyone (e.g. grandparents, parents siblings, friends, co-workers, etc.) to host a baby shower. When planning the shower it is best to always consult with the expectant parents first. This is not a time for “surprise” showers.
Baby Shower Themes
Themes for showers are abundant. You could have a traditional baby shower with a light luncheon and baby games, a girlfriends’ evening out at a great restaurant, or even a wine (sparkling cider for mom) and cheese party. Another option that is really catching on is a couples’ baby shower. Men are much more active participants in pregnancy than in the past. They attend birthing classes, are present in the delivery room, and take time off from work after the birth of their baby. Couples’ showers tend to be more casual affairs, such as a barbeque or casual party, yet you can still play traditional baby shower games. If you feel the men would rather not participate, this would be a good time for a few minutes of “male bonding”. The ideas are limitless but you should always keep in mind what the expecting parents’ preferences are.
Showers for Subsequent Children
Most people think of baby showers as being only for the first born in the family. But each baby is special and should be celebrated. These showers tend to be a bit smaller – more like a “sprinkle”. If there aren’t many years between siblings than it is safe to assume that parents have most of the larger items on hand but will welcome updating their supply of the many other items baby needs.
Showers for Adopted Children
Adoptive parents are just as excited about their new babies and welcome a celebration in their honor. Since many parents adopt older children as well as newborns it is best to let guests know whether they are adopting a boy or girl and their age.
Shower Gifts
Expecting parents usually have researched all of the things they want and need for baby and will register for them. This takes all of the questions and guessing out of choosing a gift. Many non-traditional gift choices are available that are not anticipated but very much appreciated. Since mom is focusing most of her time and energy on her pregnancy you may choose to pamper her a bit. Give her a gift certificate for a manicure and pedicure, prenatal body massage, or spa day. Also popular are gift certificates for pre- and post-delivery portrait photography and even belly casting. Another option is giving mom the gift of seeing her baby before the birth with 4D Ultrasound. If the session is done prior to the shower, the images can be shared during the shower with her guests. Let’s not forget our father-to-be. Although a bit harder to buy for, gift certificates to favorite restaurants or terrific take outs would be greatly appreciated after baby is born. Another great gift for dad is a diaper changing kit. Easily made by you and a great keepsake for dad, all you need is a multi-pocket apron available at any home or hardware center. Fill the pockets with goggles, paper mask, rubber gloves, large laundry clip (for their nose!) along with diapers, wipes, baby balm, and baby powder. Use a paint pen to personalize and you are guaranteed a great laugh and a well received gift!
Just remember that this should be a fun and relaxing time for everyone
to share in your pregnancy and to celebrate your child.
Enjoy!